I got that a lot. So, what is that?! It’s a truly smile, a sweet love or a lovely prize…. Yeah..  Could you ever thinking what you are the ‘thing’ you get a lot. Take a few seconds with me, take a deep breath, and try think - what is it? 

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Got the answer? No? Or yes? If the answer is no, so I think you should repeat the step before and try it again. And if you get the answer, feel free to tell me. So, here… I think it may be the last story about Jane and her best friend, Zack for this semester or may be not… and no one knew about it.  Okay, back to our topic what is the ‘thing’ you get a lot.

When you are born to this world, you get that. When you started to drink your mom milk, you already get that and when you able to walk, you’re also got that. So, what is ‘that’, which is I’m talking about.  For me, that is the knowledge and experience. And for you may be not. Yeah, different people definitely have different opinion. If you’re not agreed with my opinion, it’s okay. Just read it to fill your leisure time.

Knowledge and experience….

“Hye, dude! What are you thinking about? I’ve shouted for your name almost for ten times. Are you day dreaming again, Jane. Wake up!!! Can you stop doing it again? Huh!!”

“Fuh, such a long advice I got today. Thank you, buddy,” Jane patted Zack’s shoulder. 

“But, you know day dream and me cannot be separate. Hahaha…”

“What are in your mind actually? You look puzzle.”

“Hmmm.. Should I… hmmm…”

“Stop with your nonsense mumming. What is it? May be I can help you a little.”

“Actually, what in your mind when someone asked about you get that a lot, I’m took such a long moment to think about it.”

“Oooo… Why don’t you try flash back what are you get a lot along your experience be a student may be. Take a deep breath, close your eyes and think about it carefully and deeply.”

A few minutes have passed…

“Yah, I got that a lot!!”

“What is it? What are you got?”

“Knowledge, buddy, when you experience something you would get the knowledge.”

“Hmmm.. example?”

“Okay, I take myself for the example. When I have to face and talk in public, I was scared and nervous. But then, I got the way to manage my problem, so I’m totally get both, experience facing the people and the knowledge to get in touch with the people. Are you got it?”

“Ooo, so it is means that you get that a lot is you get the knowledge and also experience a lot. Am I right?”

“Yes, totally right. But, it is for me and for you, I’m not sure. What about you?”

“Me?!”

“Yup, it is your turn.”

“Love maybe.”

“Hmmm, why are you said that?”

“Because when you’re born, you’re already got love from your parent. When you are helping people, you’ll get love from them and when you have pet, you also got love from your lovely pet. And.. also

Why I said I get that a lot? Because when we have the experience , we would obtain the knowledge. No matter it is a small experience, but from that we could get a lot of knowledge. From that knowledge, we also got love from our teachers. No matter who are your teachers, may be they’re your school teacher, your friends and it could be your own self.”

“Our own self? Why?”

“When you’re having difficulty to face the people, who are your teacher? You manage to overcome by ourselves, right? So, you’re also a teacher for yourselves. From that, you also get love from your own self.”

“Wow, amazing. L.O.V.E. A simple word but I get that a lot. Thank you, Zack. Now, I can see the light. Wait, you haven’t take a breakfast yet, did you? Let’s full our stomach at my mom restaurant.”

“Brilliant. Let’s go.”

So, they walked to the Jane’s restaurant happily. Their story may be end here or maybe not. But, how about us? I think it’s just a beginning.

Making Judgement

"Is she a normal person?"
"Is she has a mental retarded?"
"Or.. she does not has any feeling at all?"

"Why are you saying like that? - asked Zack confusingly.

 "Yeah, look at there. The girl which wearing white shirt." Jane pointed to a girl who is sitting under a shady tree. Then, she continued, "You don't think that she's weird. Smiling alone and then crying loudly like a child. So, scary you know."

"Don't judge people like that, Jane. Maybe, she was flashback her past. Who's know, dude?"

"But still... I don't get it. She acted like a crazy woman who lose her husband. Yeah, you and me have see it, right? She is like gaining the attention of passerby with her changing emotion. Urggghhh..." Jane expressed her judgement without took a short thinking.

"But still, you can't jugde poeple like that. Remember the old you? People always stare and made a judgement on you too. But, you are not like that, right? So, it's same goes with her."

"Urrggghhh, okay, fine!!"

A few day after the incident...

"Hey, look at that, Zack!! Is she is our schoolmate? Why I don't notice her before?"

"Yeah, I think she is a student here and I know why you didn't notice her before." Zack smiled suspiciously.

"Oh, yeah. Why?"

"Because you are not a type of person which is care about people around you. In your life, just your world and yourself... and.." Zack mute for a while.

"And what?"

"And also me. Hahahah.... ." They laughed out loud.

A few weeks passed through..

"Zack, I think she is a cheerful person."

"Pardon?"

"I mean she is a CHEERFUL person. I saw she was laughing everyday and people like to be friend with her. She also a talkative girl."

"Are you spied her?"

"Not, I heard the girls talked about her in the toilet. Aaaa.. why not I be one of her friend."

"Brilliant. Yeah, let proceed with your good idea."

After that, their friendship went smoothly. The girl, Kaisarah, is totally a cherish person. She always smiles and Jane never see she crying. But, the thing change after Jane read her diary.

Kaisarah knew that people like to judge her and she expressed her feeling in her diary. The reason why she acted weird before is because of her incurable sickness . But, she covered her sadness with her laughter everyday. And Jane was really embarrassed with her judgement towards Kaisarah before. She quickly asked for apologies.

After that day, Jane learned a new good thing. Making judgement is we are make an opinion or a conclusion about something. But, after this  Jane promise to herself don't judge people as simple as ABC. We didn't know the truth, yet we like to take a simply judgement about we saw.